Cyber-Bullying and the Resurrection of Monica Lewinsky

Much of my work in the creation of the Applied Game Based Thinking is to integrate the classic spiritual teachings and ideas drawn from the “great strategic thinkers” .

Part of this work requires the integration of inner wisdom, stress management,  with modern technology, especially in dealing and responding to those with evil intentions with love and compassion.

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I was recently at a conference on Cyber-Bullying. On the breakout sessions the meeting planner had my company www.eventschairmassage.com offering 10 minute anti-stress massages and I got inbto a conversation about what I call “Mental Akido” or “Cyber Akido.”

Aikido (Japanese: 合気道 HepburnAikidō?[a.i.ki.doː] is a modern Japanese martial art developed by Morihei Ueshiba as a synthesis of his martial studies, philosophy, and religious beliefs. Aikido is often translated as “the way of unifying (with) life energy” or as “the way of harmonious spirit.” Ueshiba’s goal was to create an art that practitioners could use to defend themselves while also protecting their attacker from injury.”

Part of my personal journey is to learn and build on the work of others. Today in my research on internet trolls, Troll Tricksters and Cyber bullies I found a new heroine and I was a bit surprised.  Monica Lewinsky.

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Yes! That Monica Lewinsky.

She is an extraordinary woman making a real difference in the world.

I opened an article because I saw her name on the headline. The image of money, power, influence and sex reflexively caught my prurient interests.

I was in for a surprise…

The article presents a portrait of an aware, elegant, bright, talented and powerful woman who has had to transcend the worst  never-ending psychological abuse that the world can throw at a person. She has found her way and has become an important voice in the movement against Cyber-bullying.

If you have ever been bullied; made fun of; victimized; or betrayed by a friend; this article is a must read.

 

https://www.theguardian.com/technology/2016/apr/16/monica-lewinsky-shame-sticks-like-tar-jon-ronson?utm_source=esp&utm_medium=Email&utm_campaign=GU+Today+USA+-+Version+CB+header&utm_term=167734&subid=18574433&CMP=ema_565

 

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Lewis Harrison speaks to organizations and businesses of all types and offers seminars throughout the world on his work on the art and science of decision making through spiritually motivated  “Game Based Thinking”

 

He also offers private fee based coaching programs. 

Call him at 212-724-8782 for more information.

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 Click below to observe a nine minute video interview Lewis  did with the Award winning journalist Phyllis Haynes on why  people suffer:

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Lewis Harrison is the author of sixteen books including

“Spiritual, Not Religious: Sacred Tools for Modern Times” a book of  concerned with personal development, human potential, stress reduction and business excellence.

 

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A NOTE FROM LEWIS HARRISON ABOUT HIS FREE COURSE

 

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I have been contacted by many people who have studied with me over the last four decades. Many have an interest in my current ideas on  personal development and human potential. These notes are being organized into a series of books titled the”Teachings of Lewis Harrison” of which Volume One is “Spiritual, Not Religious: Sacred Tools for Modern Times.

 

based on the positive response to this first Volume in the series I have organized a free course from my 20,000 plus pages of notes on:

 

How to Make Choices, Zen, Mystic Taoism, Game Based Thinking, Quantum Thought, Holistic Medicine and Healing and other areas of interest.

 

 

If you want to receive the course just send me an e-mail toLewisCoaches@gmail.com and write “Send Me the Free Course” in the subject line. If you like it and ask for the next lesson I’ll send you another one weekly.

 

 

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Lewis Harrison speaks to organizations and businesses of all types and offers seminars throughout the world on his work on the art and science of decision making through spiritually motivated  “Game Based Thinking”

 

He also offers private fee based coaching programs. 

Call him at 212-724-8782 for more information.

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Mr. Trump! We Don’t Talk Like That in America

I often write about  great thinkers and visionaries. Most of these are from the past but I read a superb article this morning by the award winning journalist Zaheed Zakaria about American values and the threat of Donald Trump’s ideas to these values.  

I was at a conference with my stress management team including a group of chair massage therapists from www.eventschairmassage.com.

A few of the attendees were secular Muslim friends of mine who were pretty freaked out by the thing Trump has been saying and they shared the article with me. I read it and I knew immediately that I had to share the article with my readers.  

I have worked directly with Donald Trump. I traveled to over twenty cities including L.A.,  Dallas, San Francisco and others as part of the Learning Annex Real Estate Expo’s that he was part of and ran the “VIP” area for those events for over three years.

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Trump always seemed like a sensible guy even if arrogant and self involved. It went with the territory. “Show Biz” as they say.

 

Now it seems he has crossed the line into mean spiritedness, and bigotry.

 

He is using imagery and a type of speech and behavior that is so much against our inclusive culture that many influential conservative Christian evangelists find it offensive.

 

We have something special in America. In spite of the complexity of politics, the disagreements about government, political parties, guns, abortion rights, and more,  one thing that is not acceptable is bigotry based on a person’s religious affiliation

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“An “Evil” pebble thrown into the pond ripples beyond the intentions of the person who threw it”.

           Lewis Harrison

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Here is a bit about Mr. Zakaria.  His clear article and articulate article is below the bio.

Fareed Rafiq Zakaria (born January 20, 1964) is an Indian-born American journalist and author. He is the host of CNN‘s Fareed Zakaria GPS and writes a weekly column for The Washington Post. He has been a columnist for Newsweek, editor of Newsweek International, and an editor-at-large of Time. He is the author of five books, three of them international bestsellers, and the co-editor of one.  

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Click below to observe a nine minute video interview Lewis  did with the Award winning journalist Phyllis Haynes on why  people suffer:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zp4DtXpPBeM

 

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Lewis Harrison is the author of sixteen books including

“Spiritual, Not Religious: Sacred Tools for Modern Times” a book of  concerned with personal development, human potential, stress reduction and business excellence.

 

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Order his book by clicking below:

http://www.amazon.com/Spiritual-Not-Religious-Sacred-AskLewis-com/dp/1499150547

Or type these words on you search engine subject line “spiritual not religious Harrison amazon”

 

You can reach him at LewisCoaches@gmail.com

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A NOTE FROM LEWIS HARRISON ABOUT HIS FREE COURSE

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I have been contacted by many people who have studied with me over the last four decades. Many have an interest in my current ideas on  personal development and human potential. These notes are being organized into a series of books titled the”Teachings of Lewis Harrison” of which Volume One is “Spiritual, Not Religious: Sacred Tools for Modern Times.

 Based on the positive response to this first Volume in the series I have organized a free course from my 20,000 plus pages of notes on:

 

How to Make Choices, Zen, Mystic Taoism, Game Based Thinking, Quantum Thought, Holistic Medicine and Healing and other areas of interest.

If you want to receive the course just send me an e-mail toLewisCoaches@gmail.com and write “Send Me the Free Course” in the subject line. If you like it and ask for the next lesson I’ll send you another one weekly.

 

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If you are a social networker please “Friend” me, Lewis Harrison on face book “Like”  my page at https://www.facebook.com/AskLewis/ and invite others who might benefit.

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Lewis Harrison speaks to organizations and businesses of all types and offers seminars throughout the world on his work on the art and science of decision making through spiritually motivated  “Game Based Thinking”.

 

 

 

 

He also offers private fee based coaching programs. 

Call him at 212-724-8782 for more information.

 

 

 

His company www.eventsChairMassage.com offers chair massage services to meeting planners, event planners and incentive travel programs.  Massage groups in his massage network offer services in all areas of the United States including: Chair Massage Chicago – Trade Show Massage Washington D.C. – Stress Master Massage Las Vegas – Castro District Corporate Massage San Francisco – Los Angeles Stress management Massage – and The Javits Center Chair Massage Company – Capital Chair Massage Albany NY, New Jersey Meeting Massage, Atlantic City

 

He also offers private fee based coaching programs. 

Call him at 212-724-8782 for more information.

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Fad, Trends and Memes: How are they Created?

I have recently directed my attention to the subtle ways in which we are influenced and influence others. In my role as a radio talk show host, writer, mentor, coach and teacher I have watched with amusement how new ideas take hold in groups and soon become dogma.

 

The American advertising executive Donny Deutsch has discussed how ideas spread through a culture as a type of pyramid.  He speaks of these pyramids in relation to the marketing of products and services but I believe that what he describes addresses cultural viruses as well.

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At the top of the pyramid is a group that Deutsch calls the “Creators”. These are individuals who though not highly social seem to create trends without any obvious purpose or motivation. When viewed closer we may see that their actions are driven by aesthetics or an attraction to a particular pattern that may not be obvious to the rest of us. These creators may be consciously influencing culture, simply responding to personal interest or even instinct, or acting on a momentary whim. It doesn’t really matter. In the end they are influencers and what they say or do influences others.

 

These types of creator/influencers may include powerful politicians, those who are famous for being famous, individuals of great physical beauty, or those with charisma, great intellect or highly effective communication skills, or deep spiritual wisdom.

 

On the next level of this influence hierarchy are very small social circles of what Deutsch calls “Disciples”. Like the creators these individuals are neither very social, and are usually concerned with sound, sight or kinesthestic aesthetics and patterns. Like the Creators the Disciples can recognize these aesthetic patterns in a way that others cannot. However the Disciples are seldom creators, they are copiers and what they copy is what the creators create.

 

On the next level are what Deutsch calls “Believers.” These individuals seldom have any personal contact with the creator and may not even recognize the subtleties of aesthetics and patterns in a way that the creator and disciples can. What Believers can offer that Creators and Disciples seldom can is sociability. These “initiated” individuals can take the aesthetic choices of the Creators and Disciples and spread them virally through social networks and into the larger culture.

 

The rest, what Deutsch calls the “Masses”, simply by the need to feel part of a community make contact with what has been created fourth hand and make it part of their ordinary reality. They in turn influence others who are unaware of how they have been influenced. The masses simply jump on the bandwagon.

 

When Deutsch had anthropologists interview Creators and those who might be classified as Disciples, they found that many of these individuals with a limited desire for social interaction had no siblings so there is clearly a pattern here though there is no definitive meaning that can be applied to it.

 

I will be discussing this concept this Sunday 1-4 PM at “Make Choices, Not Excuses”, a seminar I teach the last Sunday of each month in Stamford NY.

I hope you can make it. Please read on

 

This inquiry of course cannot be considered scientific and yet Deutsch asks the question “Was it the solitary nature of their childhoods, the necessity of playing by themselves that allowed the Creators and Disciples to uniquely collect and appreciate unusual ideas?”  Is it possible that Creators as well as Disciples have no internal need to spread ideas and are satisfied to appreciate and apply them in isolation? Is it the Believers, who have some limited contact with Disciples and are able to observe them from a distance, that create influence, and help the Creators and Disciple to spread these social and aesthetic “Patterns” through the masses?

 

I do not like to label people or place them in “boxes” and yet Deutsch’s ideas on how ideas take form and spread among us is certainly fascinating.

 

Who are you? Creator, Disciple, Believer or simply part of the communal mind?

 

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